விதை விதைக்கப்படும்

மாற்றம் ஒன்றே மாறாதது! கொங்குநாடு பள்ளி அழகப்பா கல்லூரியாய் மாறக் கண்டேன்! அரும்பு மீசை இரும்பாய் மாற எதிர்பார்ப்புகள் அதிகரிக்க கண்டேன்! என் முதுக்குப்பின் ஒருவர் கையில் கத்தியோடு காத்திருக்க கண்டேன்! அது "நண்பனாக" இருக்கக்கூடும் ஆச்சரியம் கண்டேன் ! என் தாய்தேசம் தலைமீது ஒற்றை மயிரால் கத்தி தொங்கவிடப் படுவதையும் கண்டேன்! குருவிகளின் கூக்குரல் அபாயக்குரல் ஆனதையும் கண்டேன் ! இவற்றுக்கு எல்லாம் தீர்வாய் "விதை" விதைக்கப் படுவதையும் காண்பேன்!

CRYING VALENTINE !

February 14! Intelligent mobile networks finds the best way of earning by costing the sms. But youths see different things that day. The valentines buzz starts a week before feb 14. No wonder! The youths start planning which dress to wear, what should be the colour of the dress, and those who plan to propose they plan about the greeting card even years before!. And does a rehearsal that may reach hundreds after hundreds in their heart. Boys who loves a girl plans all possible things to make her see him and experiment all possible way to impress her. And a girl who loves a boy wants him to see her! See her only! See her only never others! If two are in love, the day became a celebration and either one of their purse looking err:-q. No need of saying how boys in groups spend that day- drinks, films, parties, etc etc. But do you remember this is modern world? So does the girls equally. If happiness in one end, what should be the other end? Saaaaaad faces for those failed in their proposal. OMG! He failed in his love. So whats the solution? Friends always have medicine for this "Come on my friend. Dont worry. Lets us drink. You will be okay". Unfortunately this happens to boys more than girls! Poor boys propose first mostly. So what we learn this day? let it be success or failure in love whats should they do? Drinks.
But unfortunately a society's and a culture's standards are measured in terms of marriage and love also. In India still marriages arranged. But the trend today is mostly love marriages. Aim of both is united family. The base of united families are purely love, love and love only. How is the standard of love today in the Indian society? A boy sees a girl first day, second day and third day she became her lover. And the girl watch him first day, second day and third day she wants him to see her on fourth day. It looks simple or no logic but its what happening seriously in different ways. The teens wants the things happening in the screen to happen in real. A boy sees himself as the hero of the story and girl considers herself as the heroine. They live as the characters and want it to happen in real life. So it happens in the third day and it is called love. Thank God, the dating culture is still waiting near the boundary for the right time. As our boundary is not that strong, already many so called modern boys and girls are in date ! Modern love starts third day and ends in the third month. But people who say their "love is true love" is always strong! Its ends only third month after marriage. So you must realise how people love truely and form a united family. If you dont believe this, i bet you will believe when you enquire about the divorce cases in courts who are mostly aging 25 to 35. There are exceptions everywhere. Real love stands beyond boundaries. So youths must realise love is not something that blooms on third day. It is something that blooms only for one heart after understanding the heart holder. Real love dont come seeing a beautiful girl. Even if you are watching a girl who is not beauty continuouly for a week,at certain situations, you will feel that you are in love with her. But is that love? Its called infactuation that should come when you are attracted by your opposite sex. Even a fifth standard boy may say that he loves her classmate. It really happens in the society. But is that love? No. Infactuation happens still one is mentally matured about love and understand what real love is. No wonder if you get infactuation at age of 25.
Real love is something that comes when you happens to have relation with a heart that understands you and can sync with your heart. You can find it only if you have spent enough time with him/her. Real love comes into you with no information, but you will realise it later. Also, dont mistake that real lovers always text and make calls. It has no boundaries at all. Even time can not make it fail. Distances never matters. It may be fail or success for the one, one does mostly with drinks. REAL LOVE MAY BE ONE SIDE BUT NEVER IN WRONG SIDE.
For a good society, its needs real love. Not the love that seeks money, beauty, etc as the cause. Its all about two hearts. Arranged marriage begins love after their marriage mostly. So no problem. Sometimes infactuated love marriages also stands by time because of our social frame. But that will be little unhealthy. Already such loves destroys our culture drastically. The result is what we see in beaches, parks and news etc.,
This article DO NOT ASK THE YOUTHS NOT TO LOVE. Its simply LOVE REAL. It should come seeing hearts not the tone of the skin, beauty, style, etc., Its sure if real love disappears from the society, the next generation will lock horns definitely. For the betterment of the future, my dear youths LOVE. Love real.